David & Gayle's Wedding <33

This weekend wasn't so bad after all. Pretty crackin.

The week after I turn 21, nothing but free frou frou drinks all week! Kristian and I have been to DnB about 4 Times in a week, then I go there with Josko and Tex, Yee Mango berry baby! On hit.


So Friday was a pretty chill day, in the morning I went to Ohlone to deal with my classes. I'm in good shape, I'm not here longer cos I fucked up in classes, Its just since I work, I gotta pace myself. Its kinda whack when you have to pay for your own classes ;[ After that met up with Kristian and Renee, we ate at Sweet Tomato, hella funny cos I got a "crunchy salad" haha After that we were chillin in the parking lot. Haha They were stoging, their addiction, and I was eating and ice cream, my addiction, if we had taken a picture it would've been hilarious because while they were stoging they would look hard, and when I was in the middle of them, I would just look like a fat boy. They had to shake and then I went to Costco to meet up with mommy, she bought stuff she needed and then we left, I went to Tap and Fell asleep for a bit, and then Kristian says, Lets go to DnB so we go there and Just chill got my drink then Shook, walked around, then met up with my dad to buy some parts for my car. Go home and rest for a bit and get ready, I pick up Vince, and he buys me a drink mm white peach sangria, boy is fucked up cos he got a long island and a Tokyo Tea. I drop him off and then head to the gay club, meet up with Karlsen, Ryan, Rashell, Andrew, Ron, Chico, Wayne, and some other ones. Get inside, we free since were 21 :] buwahah start dancing. Saw hella people I didn't expect, I saw Aila and Mayble, Jobelle Matt and Clayre and Shetell, and then Rina and Ren, and then Weilburn and what not. Hella people. Haha I was GONE. haha Had hella fun, just dancing, not giving a fuc. Then started to get tired so I left. Vince calls me and says he's bored, so I come by and swoop and we head over to Tyson's house and them cats are just talkin brand names, for DUMBASS DAYS. Get tired so then I head home.

Next day I work, Kinda whack with our new rule, if we work more than 4 1/2 hours we MUST take a 30 minute break. So I ended up staying hella longer, and I felt bad because Larry was waiting for me. He waited for like 2 hours :[ Then I finally get off and then we go to Tap to meet up with Mike Renee, and Josko and Tex. Go to great mall and just shop, Joey and Terry meet us up there. We're just looking for stuff for the wedding. We leave and we head to Bed bath and Beyond. Got their present there, head back to tap and we all chill. Everyone's starting to feel hungry so we go to Applebee's and eat. Go back to tap and post it for a bit then shake.

Sunday morning, I stay in bed for dumbass days and Renee comes over and we're just playing dress up for a while. Haha we start to get ready.Takes us hella days to get ready cos we don't really know how. Its 2 dee dee dee's haha. Finally met up at Mike's house and Josko comes, then Joey and Terry, we head out. We get there and AWWW it was hella cute with the little white gazebo. Lupe and Ramese was there, and David looked so happy :] haha first people at the bar were the Olive Gardeners. Haha Drink drink drink, then dance. I had hella fun :]

Congrats to the happy Barbie and Ken <33>

Happy 21st Birthday Bernie!

I'm ugly :[

Over all this week end was a 8 out of 10.

First off to start my weekend, it was Friday, I have the usual Friday morning breakfasts with Kristian and Renee, then we go to Diaso to get some stuff for the beach and we go to tap, chill for a bit then we head over to yoswirl. Thats done, then I go to Union City meet up with Randy and we started to head off to SF. It was a good ride till we heat Marina, my car over heats and then we exit luckily theres a honda dealership, post there for a bit till Papa comes. Randy and I move the car across the street and eat Panda Express, get some parts then we to leave the car there til mom gets off work and is able to get it towed to our house. Papa drops us of at Randy's house, I got to say hi to Tita Rose. I hella miss her :[ Then Randy drops me off at home, we play with Arrbie for a little bit then he shakes. Its cool that Randy and I are still on good terms, most other ex's I just don't really feel like dealing with for my own personal reasons, if you're close to me, you know why and I know you can't get mad at me for it cos you understand ;). I stay home and just upload videos onto my phone. I was just texting Josko and Kristian and I told them how my day was whack cos of my car. Around 11:30pm I get a phone call and its Josko telling me to go outside. I step out and its Josko and Richard, they brought me a little chocolate pie and Candles to try to make my day better and also with a bag of cookies. I love my Kuyas, they spoil tremediously! They leave and I'm already hella tired so I just tried to go to bed early since tomorrow was going to be a long day. I go to sleep and at midnight I got my birthday calls <33 onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3520/3459986929_5f17285531.jpg?v=0">
Next morning I wake up, Ni comes over Kristian picks us up, ok I told everyone at first that we wre gonna head out at 11 and Tex tells me, Bern all your friends are Filippino, tell them to meet up at 8. GOOD CALL cos we didn't even get to the beach till 11! haha We were all doing last minute shopping. We're on the way to Santa Cruz and Tex says, Yay Bernie we finally made it to the beach..a year later!! haha Better late than never :] we try to get some liqour, the first bottle I bought was Alize Yee. After that we go to the beach and just chill. Cook and eat, Nei and Ni and I just started to dig our hole, and the guys were trying to give Josko directions, 45 min later. We're all just chilling eating, go in the water, drink, hella fun I've ever had in soo long :]


Everyone goes home later on at night is when the real "party" begins. Ted Picks me up and Allen and Cheryl are in the car, we go to Palo Alto, watch Panny Pack Perform, then afterwards we shake cos of some little mishap. Go to SF get wrong directions from a Hobo, as we were walking a British guy and a black get at it haha cos the British guy was captivated by his "bloody good burger" and he walked into the black guy and the black guy socks him. haha then the black guy chases the British guy. Get to the club, and Gloriene is already fucked up. Allen Ted Cheryl and I go to Ihop to eat.


The reason its an 8 out of 10 is because I didn't get what I really wanted, which was to spend it with everyone no drama. It sucks that we had to go to two different places to see people. The old UC crew is all split up and it makes me hella sad. I know theres nothing I can do and shit happens, but it just upsets me that I can't get what I really want just ONCE. Saturday, I spent more time traveling then actually partying. It was just a big slap in the face to see what happened with everything. Things change, and people come and go, its whack though.


But to the people that did spend the day with me and got me presents, thank you for EVERYTHING. Thank you for the birthday greets! And everything else!!

Life is good :]

Fat Boy

Happy Birthday Kuya Chris!

There's something I miss, or maybe its someone. Should I own up, be a man and confess? Definately I've had some blasts from the past, but honey, you're a little too late, (and dull) might I had. Just cos one player is out of the game, doesn't mean you can move ahead to one square. Plus its your grill.

Easter Sunday, went to church with mommy, then work. Work was horrible, first Sunday From a long while where I'm finally and it sucked. Got off work and went to Tap, chilled with Ate Tin, and Ate Teresa. Went to the bookstore and was just there for hella days. Haha went back to tap Chilled and Richard and I just got stuck at tap watching cartoons, our lives are too busy to watch tv. Throughout our Tv marathon I was texting Tin and she said she was at Olive Garden and Josko was her server. I told her in a text. "Tuscan garlic chicken, mmm calamari!oo Tell Josko I want soup!." I go back to watching tv 30 minutes later She text back, and says "DAang Josko put in the ENTIRE order." for a minute i was thinking sweet I hope she enjoys it, then I thought, why would it be a problem if its her Rommel and Claude. Then I realized, crap she probably thought I wanted it for myself! Turns out it was -_-' Richard and I were just about to go home and make ourselves food, but we ended up waiting fro Kristian to get off work and then we go to Olive Garden and get the food and we go to Kristians house and eat it all on the floor. Garrah! Josko spoiled us! Tuscan Garlic Chicken, Calarmari and Mushrooms, and Fagoli, and Chiotoli! We murdered it haha. A Random Easter Dinner!

Next day I got my hair done with Ohtee then Work at the Office then hosting at Olive Garden. Josko Stayed with me cos Chantay told him how she offered to close but I said No cos I saw Josko Was closing so I'll wait for him, turns out he got cutt earlier than I did but he stayed and helped me with my side work. I love You big brother :] he spoils me. He got me mussels to eat! I told him "You're making me fat!" He says "I'm keeping you perfect."

Everyone is helping me plan out Saturday I'm excited and scared at the same time, excited because I'm going to be with the best group of people I can ever ask for, and scared, I'm going to be too drunk to remember anything. This is going to be pay back for all the times I rejected their drinks :[.

How to _____ with an Aries

How to Flirt with an Aries

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• An Aries
• A pair of tennis shoes
• Quick wit

Step1

Superman Wink Aries rules the head, so approach this area with great care. Any movement towards their heads will be sensed immediately. Sometimes Aries even walk with the heads tilted forward before the rest of their bodies.

If you make a sudden move to touch their hair or face, an Aries may flinch, which might just ruin the mood you are trying to create. You may notice most Aries have a scar somewhere on their heads (don't go looking for it). Baldness is an Aries trait as well. The metaphysical theory is that all their energy rises to their head and burns out the hair follicles.

Since the head (and predominantly) face are their forte, they will be inclined to pay more attention to that part of your body. That means your face, eyes, hair, lips. So, play around with those features to flirt. Make eye contact, but not for long, Aries have short attention spans. A quick focused look or bite of the lip will make an impression. Also, a compliment about their facial features, eyes, lips, skin will go a long way.

Step2

Sparring Partner They will be confrontational. A little contrast, a little good-natured fight, will be enough for them to feel you will make a good partner, sparring or otherwise. They are attracted to an active partner. They do "talk off the top of their heads" sometimes, so it would be wise to not get upset with what they say. If they see you can play-fight without getting traumatized, they will be more eager to spend more time with you. A compliment here about how their courage, fearlessness and stepping up to the challenges of life, will be welcome.

Step3

Challenge They like a challenge ...a "real" challenge, not contrived flirtatious games. The will use their senses like a hunter to get to know the real you, so they can conquer you. This is a great test because their gut reactions will sense any qualities you may have that are contrived and you will be forced to face them. Flirting with others to create a challenge doesn't work with them. Their instinctive sense is so high, it will just make them angry. They won't realize until it's too late that you schemed an elaborate ploy to make them like you better. The instinctive part of the brain (brain stem) doesn't process subtle information like the frontal lobes. To the point honesty, without long drawn out explanations, pays off here.

Step4

Busy Bee They "will" retreat into their busy lifestyles. So, you get busy with your life as well. When you meet after your daily conquests, you can share your bounties together like two Pirates of the Caribbean. Not complaining about an Aries' busy schedule and showing interest in their next challenge will create more intimacy.

Step5

Patience Even though Aries doesn't have patience, you will probably need some. Patience with their absences, because they have so many other things to do, and patience with their impatience, is a must. It is a bit of a double standard, since you will have to show patience and they won't. Chalk this one up to one of their charming qualities and let it go.

Step6

Humor Finally, quick wit, quick come-backs and humor. The lovely thing about Aries is that they are very focused on the present. If you don't remind them you broke up with them the night before, they may not remember the argument at all, the day after. So, give them a call like nothing happened, like you just met them for the first time. You'll be surprised how quickly they make a comeback!

How to Seduce an Aries

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

Rate: (9 Ratings)

The Aries sign is wild and fiery, as well as passionate. Aries love a good challenge and detest weakness or clinginess. They love the mysterious and unknown, and they should never feel as though they have you at beck and call. If you are trying to seduce an Aries, you use these different strategies.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Debate skills

Step1

Keep running until you catch your Aries. Aries like to be challenged and they like to know that they will catch you. Act aloof and mysterious. Try not to express too much feeling when you are trying to seduce an Aries.

Step2

Make a daring and bold move. Aries like to be spontaneous and whisked away by passion. Be somewhat aggressive and go for it. They will respect your courage and go with the flow.

Step3

Start a debate with your Aries sign. They love a good battle and will get aroused. When they are all fired up, make a move on them.

Step4

Tell them that you do not know much about sex. They will find this erotic and will want to teach you everything they know. Act innocent and let them take you the way they want to.

Step5

Crawl into bed with an Aries in the early morn. The Aries sign tends to be aroused early in the morning and you might catch them at the perfect time.

Step6

Role play with an Aries. Pretend you are a virgin, or dress in togas and fan an Aries with palm leaves while feeding her wine and grapes

How to Date an Aries Female

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

Rate: (7 Ratings)

If you believe that love is in the stars, and you're looking to date a strong-willed woman, look no further than an Aries female. According to the zodiac, Aries is one of the strongest astrological signs. If being with a woman who is not afraid to speak her mind and who wants to be the center of attention isn't intimidating to you, then consider dating an Aries female. Here's how to go about it.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Step1

Show confidence and high self-esteem. Arian females are strong and outspoken and aren't generally interested in wimpy, weak-willed men who might easily be intimidated by their powerful personalities.

Step2

Let her talk about herself. Female Aries love to talk about their goals, feelings and ambitions. Encourage her to tell you about herself, not that she'll need much encouragement: Arian women tend to be all about "me."

Step3

Give her space. Don't expect to spend every waking moment with an Aries female. Let her spend time with her friends (she'll likely have many) as well as devote her energy to her work. True to her nature as a born leader, she's likely got a high position in whatever field she's working in.

Step4

Tell it like it is when it comes time to talk about yourself. Be honest. Don't embellish or lie even in a bad attempt to make yourself look better on a first date with an Aries female. Arian women do not tolerate dishonesty or phoniness.

Step5

Cater to her adventurous spirit and leadership qualities. Don't do the "same old thing" when taking her on a date. Look for fun, exciting new things you can do together. And let her be in charge sometimes, such as picking the movie or the restaurant.

Aries Woman

For an Arian woman, gaining independence and reaching the zenith at work is the primary focus. Challenges are very well accepted and also overcome by her. Aries woman hates being forced to stay idle and would not settle down until she is satisfied with her accomplishments. Aries females are very lively and active. They fall in the category of those individuals who do not like to be bossed around. Aries females are contemporary, in terms of style as well as thought process.

Good-cultured, well-mannered and highly educated men stand a fair chance of wooing an Arian woman. She loves to enjoy intelligent conversation. At the same time, she deems it very important that her partner is well dressed and shies away from any kind of rough behavior. An Aries woman would make a splendid wife for a person who is ambitious, independent and beaming with energy. She gets attracted to the strongest and the best looking man, ignoring the most important quality i.e. the psychological framework of a person.

Arian women make great communicators as they love talking. They are also adept at striking the perfect balance in both, personal and professional life. It might be surprising, but Arian woman make a better wife only if she is working or has some outside interests. This is because sitting idle doesn't suit her well, damaging her individuality. She might get jealous at times, making herself extremely unhappy. An amazing will power makes an Arian female overcome all her flaws to enjoy a better life.

If a woman behaves in a way that is distinctive of the personality associated with the zodiac sign of Aries, she will have a tendency toward the characteristics listed below, providing there are no influences in her personal birthchart that are stronger than that of her Aries sun sign.

Appearance

The typical Aries woman:

* is slim and strong

* is very active and glows with energy

* has strong, luxurious hair

* wears sophisticated colors and perfume

* dresses in clothes appropriate to the occasion

Behavior and Personality Traits

* looks you in the eye and gives a firm handshake

* is enthusiastic and optimistic

* talks back and often gets hurt because of it

* expects loyalty

* is fearless

* has interests outside the home or has a career

* expects to win in any situation

* is direct, open, and honest

* can make miracles happen

The End of An Affair

Boredom is the death of most Aries love affairs. Like the knight in a crusade, it is the winning that is the peak of excitement. Once the fair lady (or fair gentleman) is won, there may be nothing left to stimulate the affair further. At this point the Aries will get itchy feet and want to be off to find new conquests.

It isn't that love itself is merely a conquest, it is the joy of overcoming obstacles to reach love. The partner of an Aries must always keep a little mystery in reserve and must always believe in every new Aries dream. If all fails -- and Aries will try and try before leaving a relationship -- then the Aries passion cools and there remains only a lack of interest.

A lover who hurts Aries very deeply can expect to be totally frozen out and ignored.

Aries at Rest

Rarely is a typical Aries seen to rest during the day. They seem to have an inexhaustible supply of energy and a constant willpower. However, when eventually tired, at perhaps three in the morning, the typical Aries will usually sleep well and may either sleep late or take a long time to get started again in the morning.

The typical Aries doesn't rest like most other people; both male and female Aries are too busy with some project or other to stop for long. The enthusiasm with which they do things is as good as a rest to them. When enthusiasm wanes, they still don't want to rest but are impatient to be off on a new venture.

RIP Conrado Justin Barba

Jacked from Chantz

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Rest in Peace Conrado Barba.


By Ben Aguirre Jr.
The Argus

Posted: 03/25/2009 07:08:56 AM PDT

Updated: 03/25/2009 06:46:28 PM PDT
UNION CITY — Agnes Barba sits in her family's
living room saying good things about her 21-year-
old son, Justin.

To her left is a makeshift trophy case displaying his
accomplishments through the years: dozens of
trophies for participation in baseball, basketball,
football, soccer and wrestling.

On the wall to Agnes' right is a bullet hole, a
reminder that her son's life was cut short just hours
earlier.

"I don't know why this happened," she said through
tears Wednesday morning. "I don't know why this is
happening to me. ... I can't believe what's going on."

Agnes, her family and friends were grieving
Wednesday after the death of her son, Coronado
Justin Barba II, one of two people shot in the family's
Horner Street garage about 8:15 Tuesday night.

Barba was shot in the back and died in his brother's
arms, while a 19-year-old Hayward man was hit as
many as five times in both legs, relatives said.

The Hayward man was in a hospital Wednesday,
recovering from wounds that police said are not
life-threatening.
Two other people, including Justin Barba's 19-year-
old brother, Josh, were in the garage when a
gunman opened fire on the group. Neither of them
was hurt.
Relatives said the gunman, wearing a dark hooded
sweatshirt, crept up on the open garage and began
firing. They said they heard as many as 10 shots.
At least one bullet struck Justin, police said. One
bullet also struck a refrigerator, another hit the
dryer and one pierced the back wall, whizzing past
the living room couch where Justin's father had been
sitting, Agnes Barba said.
Investigators returned to the crime scene
Wednesday morning to speak with relatives and to
retrieve two more bullets that the family recovered
earlier in the day.
Phil Rozario, one of Justin Barba's uncles, said he
pulled a bullet out of the dryer and found another
on the ground under a pile of clothing in the
garage. By all accounts, Justin Barba was a good,
quiet man, probably not the intended target of a
gunman. He grew up in Union City, and attended
Alvarado Middle School and James Logan High
School before enrolling in the Universal Technical
Institute in Arizona, where he trained to be an auto
mechanic.
"When he went out (to Arizona), I went with him,"
said Andrea Icban, Justin's girlfriend of six years.
The two had been a couple since high school, but
friends much longer. "We talked about opening a
diner and a (auto) shop," she said, fighting back
tears. Justin has been employed as a mechanic at a
local car dealership for more than a year and on
Tuesday, he intended to visit Icban, who said she
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was not feeling well and stayed at home.

"When he got off work, he called me and told me
that he'd bring dinner and we'd watch a movie, but
he wanted to get his hair cut and take a shower
first," Icban said.

When Justin got home, he joined his brother and
two friends in the garage. Justin's brother, who
relatives said is a barber, cut his hair.

"He just got his hair cut and got up (from the seat)
when he was shot," Barba's mother said.

On Wednesday, clumps of freshly cut hair remained
on the garage floor amid clusters of clothing soaked
in blood. The chair in which Justin sat had a bullet
hole in it.

"He was a very good person," Rozario said. "He was
quiet, always kept to himself."

Icban said she and Justin loved Las Vegas and had
plans to go there to celebrate their birthdays. Barba
would have been 22 in April. Authorities on
Wednesday said they still were investigating and had
not established a motive. Anyone with information
may call police at 510-471-1365."


There were 3 things I remember most about you. Even though I didn't know you that well, I still will always remember. First thing was when Randy and I first started going out, I thought you didn't like me cos he was always with me and I felt bad, but then this one day you said "Ay Bernie, watch out, after you go out with Randy, You'll turn gay." Hahah second, was when you were eatting a sandwich and I took pictures and made it into a little video. 3rd was when I almost got into a fight with Taylor, when he yelled at me "I ain't afraid to hit a girl." and I yelled at him back saying "Then hit me!" and you and all the guys were laughing cos he was hella getting mad and then Juan hella stood behind me and said "hit her and see what happens." He shutted up and everyday you kept telling me, "just get him mad, its hella funny just get him mad" hahaha We had auto for like 2 hours and you were actually getting shit done and me and the other dudes were just in the back crackin jokes in the tool room. Dang man, hard to believe, and I just seen you a couple days ago at TapEx....

My prayers will go out to the Barbas. You're in a better place now...