How to _____ with an Aries

How to Flirt with an Aries

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• An Aries
• A pair of tennis shoes
• Quick wit

Step1

Superman Wink Aries rules the head, so approach this area with great care. Any movement towards their heads will be sensed immediately. Sometimes Aries even walk with the heads tilted forward before the rest of their bodies.

If you make a sudden move to touch their hair or face, an Aries may flinch, which might just ruin the mood you are trying to create. You may notice most Aries have a scar somewhere on their heads (don't go looking for it). Baldness is an Aries trait as well. The metaphysical theory is that all their energy rises to their head and burns out the hair follicles.

Since the head (and predominantly) face are their forte, they will be inclined to pay more attention to that part of your body. That means your face, eyes, hair, lips. So, play around with those features to flirt. Make eye contact, but not for long, Aries have short attention spans. A quick focused look or bite of the lip will make an impression. Also, a compliment about their facial features, eyes, lips, skin will go a long way.

Step2

Sparring Partner They will be confrontational. A little contrast, a little good-natured fight, will be enough for them to feel you will make a good partner, sparring or otherwise. They are attracted to an active partner. They do "talk off the top of their heads" sometimes, so it would be wise to not get upset with what they say. If they see you can play-fight without getting traumatized, they will be more eager to spend more time with you. A compliment here about how their courage, fearlessness and stepping up to the challenges of life, will be welcome.

Step3

Challenge They like a challenge ...a "real" challenge, not contrived flirtatious games. The will use their senses like a hunter to get to know the real you, so they can conquer you. This is a great test because their gut reactions will sense any qualities you may have that are contrived and you will be forced to face them. Flirting with others to create a challenge doesn't work with them. Their instinctive sense is so high, it will just make them angry. They won't realize until it's too late that you schemed an elaborate ploy to make them like you better. The instinctive part of the brain (brain stem) doesn't process subtle information like the frontal lobes. To the point honesty, without long drawn out explanations, pays off here.

Step4

Busy Bee They "will" retreat into their busy lifestyles. So, you get busy with your life as well. When you meet after your daily conquests, you can share your bounties together like two Pirates of the Caribbean. Not complaining about an Aries' busy schedule and showing interest in their next challenge will create more intimacy.

Step5

Patience Even though Aries doesn't have patience, you will probably need some. Patience with their absences, because they have so many other things to do, and patience with their impatience, is a must. It is a bit of a double standard, since you will have to show patience and they won't. Chalk this one up to one of their charming qualities and let it go.

Step6

Humor Finally, quick wit, quick come-backs and humor. The lovely thing about Aries is that they are very focused on the present. If you don't remind them you broke up with them the night before, they may not remember the argument at all, the day after. So, give them a call like nothing happened, like you just met them for the first time. You'll be surprised how quickly they make a comeback!

How to Seduce an Aries

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

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The Aries sign is wild and fiery, as well as passionate. Aries love a good challenge and detest weakness or clinginess. They love the mysterious and unknown, and they should never feel as though they have you at beck and call. If you are trying to seduce an Aries, you use these different strategies.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Debate skills

Step1

Keep running until you catch your Aries. Aries like to be challenged and they like to know that they will catch you. Act aloof and mysterious. Try not to express too much feeling when you are trying to seduce an Aries.

Step2

Make a daring and bold move. Aries like to be spontaneous and whisked away by passion. Be somewhat aggressive and go for it. They will respect your courage and go with the flow.

Step3

Start a debate with your Aries sign. They love a good battle and will get aroused. When they are all fired up, make a move on them.

Step4

Tell them that you do not know much about sex. They will find this erotic and will want to teach you everything they know. Act innocent and let them take you the way they want to.

Step5

Crawl into bed with an Aries in the early morn. The Aries sign tends to be aroused early in the morning and you might catch them at the perfect time.

Step6

Role play with an Aries. Pretend you are a virgin, or dress in togas and fan an Aries with palm leaves while feeding her wine and grapes

How to Date an Aries Female

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

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If you believe that love is in the stars, and you're looking to date a strong-willed woman, look no further than an Aries female. According to the zodiac, Aries is one of the strongest astrological signs. If being with a woman who is not afraid to speak her mind and who wants to be the center of attention isn't intimidating to you, then consider dating an Aries female. Here's how to go about it.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Step1

Show confidence and high self-esteem. Arian females are strong and outspoken and aren't generally interested in wimpy, weak-willed men who might easily be intimidated by their powerful personalities.

Step2

Let her talk about herself. Female Aries love to talk about their goals, feelings and ambitions. Encourage her to tell you about herself, not that she'll need much encouragement: Arian women tend to be all about "me."

Step3

Give her space. Don't expect to spend every waking moment with an Aries female. Let her spend time with her friends (she'll likely have many) as well as devote her energy to her work. True to her nature as a born leader, she's likely got a high position in whatever field she's working in.

Step4

Tell it like it is when it comes time to talk about yourself. Be honest. Don't embellish or lie even in a bad attempt to make yourself look better on a first date with an Aries female. Arian women do not tolerate dishonesty or phoniness.

Step5

Cater to her adventurous spirit and leadership qualities. Don't do the "same old thing" when taking her on a date. Look for fun, exciting new things you can do together. And let her be in charge sometimes, such as picking the movie or the restaurant.

Aries Woman

For an Arian woman, gaining independence and reaching the zenith at work is the primary focus. Challenges are very well accepted and also overcome by her. Aries woman hates being forced to stay idle and would not settle down until she is satisfied with her accomplishments. Aries females are very lively and active. They fall in the category of those individuals who do not like to be bossed around. Aries females are contemporary, in terms of style as well as thought process.

Good-cultured, well-mannered and highly educated men stand a fair chance of wooing an Arian woman. She loves to enjoy intelligent conversation. At the same time, she deems it very important that her partner is well dressed and shies away from any kind of rough behavior. An Aries woman would make a splendid wife for a person who is ambitious, independent and beaming with energy. She gets attracted to the strongest and the best looking man, ignoring the most important quality i.e. the psychological framework of a person.

Arian women make great communicators as they love talking. They are also adept at striking the perfect balance in both, personal and professional life. It might be surprising, but Arian woman make a better wife only if she is working or has some outside interests. This is because sitting idle doesn't suit her well, damaging her individuality. She might get jealous at times, making herself extremely unhappy. An amazing will power makes an Arian female overcome all her flaws to enjoy a better life.

If a woman behaves in a way that is distinctive of the personality associated with the zodiac sign of Aries, she will have a tendency toward the characteristics listed below, providing there are no influences in her personal birthchart that are stronger than that of her Aries sun sign.

Appearance

The typical Aries woman:

* is slim and strong

* is very active and glows with energy

* has strong, luxurious hair

* wears sophisticated colors and perfume

* dresses in clothes appropriate to the occasion

Behavior and Personality Traits

* looks you in the eye and gives a firm handshake

* is enthusiastic and optimistic

* talks back and often gets hurt because of it

* expects loyalty

* is fearless

* has interests outside the home or has a career

* expects to win in any situation

* is direct, open, and honest

* can make miracles happen

The End of An Affair

Boredom is the death of most Aries love affairs. Like the knight in a crusade, it is the winning that is the peak of excitement. Once the fair lady (or fair gentleman) is won, there may be nothing left to stimulate the affair further. At this point the Aries will get itchy feet and want to be off to find new conquests.

It isn't that love itself is merely a conquest, it is the joy of overcoming obstacles to reach love. The partner of an Aries must always keep a little mystery in reserve and must always believe in every new Aries dream. If all fails -- and Aries will try and try before leaving a relationship -- then the Aries passion cools and there remains only a lack of interest.

A lover who hurts Aries very deeply can expect to be totally frozen out and ignored.

Aries at Rest

Rarely is a typical Aries seen to rest during the day. They seem to have an inexhaustible supply of energy and a constant willpower. However, when eventually tired, at perhaps three in the morning, the typical Aries will usually sleep well and may either sleep late or take a long time to get started again in the morning.

The typical Aries doesn't rest like most other people; both male and female Aries are too busy with some project or other to stop for long. The enthusiasm with which they do things is as good as a rest to them. When enthusiasm wanes, they still don't want to rest but are impatient to be off on a new venture.